Good Heavens
May 3, 2026, First Lutheran Church, Throggs Neck, Bronx, N.Y. If you know you have just a few more days to live, the last thing you want to hear is “don’t let your hearts be troubled.” Fuggetaboudit . Don’t worry. Be happy. Samuel Johnson’s response was more realistic: “Depend upon it, sir, when a man knows he is to be hanged in a fortnight, it concentrates his mind wonderfully.” In fact, imminent death is probably all we’ll be able to think about. it’s not the sort of news we can quickly accept and be at peace with. According to the model of the five stages of grief, or the Elizabeth Kübler-Ross model, those experiencing sudden grief following an abrupt realization go through five emotions: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and, finally, acceptance. Most people have difficulty imagining what happens after death. We assure ourselves we are going to a “better place,” but what if it’s just – nothing? Mark Twain said, “I do not fear death. I had been dead for b...