February 2, 2025, Saint Barnabas Lutheran Church, Howard Beach, Queens, N.Y.
Not long ago Martha and Katie and I went to our favorite restaurant. After we were seated, I excused myself and went to the bathroom to wash my hands.
Inside, I was startled to see a tall man bent over the sink. He was scrubbing his face with an excess of hand soap while crooning “Let it Be” in a fulsome, falsetto voice.
I turned quickly to leave the room but the man saw me.
“Sir, excuse me,” he said. He gestured grandly toward the sink and stepped aside. “After you,” he said as soapy water drizzled into his beard.
“No,” I said, “Please finish up.”
The man pulled small scraps of paper towel out of a miserly dispenser and dabbed at his face.
“I got time,” he said. “Waiting don’t bother me. I been in prison three years. Just got out.”
I glanced at the bathroom door and stepped warily to the sink. I let a little water trickle in my hands and quickly shook it off.
“Are you heading home?” I asked.
“I am,” he said. “As soon as I can get the bus.”
“You must be a happy man.”
“Thinking about getting out is all that kept me going.”
I usually don’t offer benedictions in public restrooms, but the guy seemed so joyful.
“God bless you,” I said. “I hope it all goes well from here on.”
“God bless your kind self,” he said.
He continued in the same genial vein.
“Spent all my money on the bus ticket,” he said. “Haven’t eaten today. Can you help me out?”
I tend to ignore requests like that when I don’t have time to think them over. My hesitation probably stems from conflicting genes I inherited from my paternal grandparents. During the Great Depression, Grandma was famous for doling out samples of her canned meat to starving hobos, while Grandpa was known to defend his larder with a .45 revolver.
I inherited more of Grandpa’s tightness than Grandma’s generosity, but Grandpa never negotiated with an ex-con in a restaurant bathroom.
“Don’t have a lot,” I mumbled, reaching for my wallet. I pulled out three wrinkled dollar bills and gave them to the man.
His eyes crinkled as he grinned.
“God bless you more,” he said, almost laughing. He clutched the money to his chest. “God bless you, man.”
I smiled and backed slowly out of the bathroom.
Martha and Katie were still waiting for our food when I took my seat. I glanced back at the bathroom and saw the man had also exited and was pressing the three dollar bills on the counter. The waiter nodded and brought him a basket of bread. The man stuffed a bread stick into his mouth. He chewed thoughtfully as he packed the rest of the bread into his jacket pocket and walked out of the restaurant.
Soon our food was delivered. I leaned back in my chair and mused how I would tell this interesting story to Martha and Katie. I knew I had time to think about it because Martha was staring intently at her iPhone and Katie was absorbed by a large bowl of macaroni and cheese.
Suddenly I had an epiphany, or thought I did.
“I wonder,” I said, picking up my fork, “if I just talked with Jesus.”
Martha glanced at me quizzically.
The passage from Matthew was running through my head.
“I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you gave me clothing, I was sick and you took care of me, I was in prison and you visited me.” (Matthew 25:35-39)
Actually, I was fretting about the more negative passage:
“Just as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.” (Matthew 25:45)
Jesus, I said to myself. I should have sprung for more than three bucks.
I took some solace in the fact that the man seemed satisfied by my grudging largess.
And of course there’s always a chance the man was just who he said he was – not Jesus but a recently paroled convict looking for a meal as he waited for the bus home.
But it doesn’t make any difference because Jesus made it plain that we should treat convicts and strangers as if they were him.
That’s a helpful thing to keep in mind, not only because otherwise we’d treat convicts and many strangers with contempt, but also because it’s not always easy to recognize Jesus.
That is one reason the story of Jesus’ presentation in the temple is so remarkable. He was a 40-day old infant, his face partially covered in swaddling, being carried by working class parents. They must have been like hundreds who came to the temple every day to present their first-born and offer a sacrifice to God, obscure, invisible.
But two elderly strangers, Simeon and Anna, recognized the baby immediately.
Simeon took the baby from Mary’s arms and praised God. With joy in his voice, he uttered the benediction we recite every Sunday, the nunc dimittis,
“Master, now you are dismissing your servant in peace … for my eyes have seen your salvation, which you have prepared in the presence of all peoples, a light for revelation to the Gentiles and glory to your people Israel.”
This is even more astounding than the fact that, out of all the first-born babies who pass through the Temple, the old man knows this one is special. More than that, he recognizes that the savior has been sent not just to Israel but to all the peoples of earth.
This revelation, before the baby had made his first smile, is why we observe Jesus’ presentation in the temple as a special event that shines a bright light on who Jesus is. Many churches celebrate with candlelight processions, which is why this day is marked in the church’s calendar as Candlemas. Many Christians keep their Christmas decorations up until Candlemas, 40 days after the nativity. The tree is still lit art casa Cruz y Jenks. (And we have every intention of taking it down before Ash Wednesday.)
Simeon cuddles the baby in his arms with great joy, but he knows the path of Messiahship will not be easy, for Israel or the baby’s mother.
“The child is destined for the falling and rising of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be opposed so that the inner thoughts of many will be revealed.”
“A sword will pierce your own soul too,” he tells Mary.
Thus we are reminded that amid the joy of Christmas and Epiphany, God has sent God’s son into the world to suffer and die. And Mary, now pleased and amazed by what Simeon is saying about her son, will one day feel pain cutting through her soul as she stands helpless beneath the cross.
The other figure in the temple who recognizes the messiah is Anna, an 84-year-old widow.
The Rev. Doyt L. Conn, Jr., an Episcopal priest from Seattle, sees Anna as a different kind of prophet.
“She is a bit more mysterious, sort of a master, like a Jedi master, like Rey from The Force Awakens,” he says. “Anna fasts and prays like a warrior, strong and indominable, and her mastery of the spiritual exercises, gives her access to the mind of God. And so, she sees quickly and clearly that the child, Jesus, is the salvation of Israel. And so, without inhibition or hesitation she announces that he is the redemption of the nation.”
Simeon and Anna recognized the infant Messiah because they opened their hearts to God and were guided by God to greet the one who will change history forever.
For us, we have the benefit of scripture and a cloud of witnesses to help us recognize the mewling baby as the Savior who will come into our lives. We are called to seek his presence in all who populate our lives.
Dr. Shively Smith of Boston University School of Theology, suggests the story of the presentation “is a wonderful invitation for our churches to consider the diversity of messages, voices, and locations among us as we celebrate the birth of Jesus as the Christ. The story of Jesus’ birth and early life in Luke makes room … for women and men. It makes room for youth and elder. It makes room for the poor, disappointed, and unsuspecting.”
On this day, February 2, 2025, we understand full well what Simeon meant when he said “The child is destined for the falling and rising of many …, and to be a sign that will be opposed.” Our nation and our churches are bitterly divided over religion and politics. The Rt. Rev. Mariann Budde calls for love, compassion, and acceptance for gay, lesbian, and transgender children, and points out that the majority of immigrants are tax paying good neighbors. Yet many who heard her, many who consider themselves Christian, did not recognize Holy Scripture or the voice of Christ.
Dr. Smith points out that “the good news of Jesus’ birth is that insiders and outsiders of our immediate communities and families can carry the good news of God’s salvation, liberation, acceptance not just to others in the world, but to us as well.”
We need to cup our ears to make sure we are hearing Simeon’s words clearly. The baby in his arms is God’s salvation “for all peoples, a light for revelation to the Gentiles and glory to your people Israel.” But some will rise and fall and some will be opposed.
Let us pray that God will enable us to testify that love, humility, compassion, empathy, and acceptance are the marks of the Christian life. So that at the end of our days, we may say with Simeon,
“Master, now you are dismissing your servant in peace … for my eyes have seen your salvation, which you have prepared in the presence of all peoples, a light for revelation to the Gentiles and glory to your people Israel.
Amen.